Okay, so I’m going to confess something to you ladies – I don’t have my ears pierced.  There is a reason behind it – I am scared of pain.  I don’t think that skewering my earlobe with a piece of metal makes a difference in how I look, however, with that said, I wish I could wear things like hoop earrings.  Take the pair above, I think that it looks totally stylish and absolutely fashionable – but I can’t wear ‘em.  If you have your ears pierced, when do you think is the right time to pop out the hoop earrings?  Is it okay at the office?  What about on a date?  Share with me and maybe – just maybe I’ll take the plunge and get my ears pierced!